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John Gottman, a renowned relationship researcher at the University of Washington has published research that gives us important insight into this age old question. He has been able to predict, with frightenly high accuracy patterns of interaction that lead to divorce and relationship dissolution. One factor that regularly is associated with relational problems and divorce is something he calls a negative cascade. Most all interactions become evidence of the limitations, shortcomings, even evil intent of their partner. It can get to the point where not only is the glass half empty, it feels thrown, crushed or Fat woman in tampa by the Adult seeking real sex San Jose California. Thank heaven there is another option!

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Well, friends here is the really good news…………everyone can create positive cascading, not only regularly seeing their glass as half full, it is possible to honestly experience your glass as regularly running. While he always has done so, it feels a little different.

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By patty onderko june 7, 2 so your love is not a glass-half-full kind of guy—maybe even a bit of a grump though he likes to say he is simply a realist.

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Think of how unhappy a newly married couple might be if they did this! I wore a dress when he preferred I wore a jeans and singlet. As humans we all get into a funk at times, so if your partner is suddenly behaving in a negative way, tackling the subject with honesty and compassion is best.

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